I have the same problem my key just keeps snapping and I noticed the threaded part of the crankshaft is slightly bent will ths effect it even thou I can still get the nut on as tight as I need to.
Impact driver to an unknown tension , NO.
Tension wrench to 53 ft lbs YES.
If you have over tensioned the flywheel on, it is going to be a swine to get off next time.