You can get new gaskets from ebay or bikebandit.com. From the factory, there is no gasket between the stock intake boot and the reed cage, but if you use a reed spacer, you will need a gasket.
The stock intake boot has a 'crush ring' around it that is designed to seal the boot against the reed cage. If you find sealant around the intake boot like you did, it may be a sign that somebody has tried to fix an air leak there.
2.5 turns out on the airscrew is OK. It just means that your pilot jet is a bit rich. You can change that out later, once you get the engine running properly. The farther in you turn the airscrew, the richer the idle mix becomes. I generally don't turn an airscrew out more than 3 turns, if only because it is so far out that vibration can cause it to back all the way out and fall out on the trails.
Get a box of NGK B8ES or BR8ES plugs. The 'R' stands for 'Resistor'. You don't have to have a resistor spark plug, but it is OK to run one. Take your pick. Gap is .028"-.030".
If I were you, I'd get a cylinder leakdown tester from Holeshotman on here. PM him and order one. There are plenty of threads on how to use it. This will take ALL the guesswork out of sealing up air leaks, and may well save your top end from blowing due to running lean.